I’m the Intuition Coach.

And for a very long time, I didn’t listen to my own intuition.

I told myself to keep going. To stay grateful. To ignore what I was feeling.

In 2017, I was working a job that didn’t feel right. I kept showing up, thinking I should feel grateful, even though my body was tense and heavy every day. I ignored my body because this job had gotten me out of my country, this job was supposed to be my dream.

One anxious Sunday evening, walking in nature near Amsterdam, a thought came through:

 You’re allowed to leave. You’re allowed to choose something else.

I did not know what was driving me so powerfully, but the next day I quit. And I felt a physical weight lift off me. That voice, clear, calm, and firm, was my intuition.

 I felt its power before I fully understood it. But I still did not know that was my intuition speaking. It took time.

Years later, I was in a relationship with someone who kept crossing my boundaries. I thought that what I was feeling every day was anxiety. Actually, I was angry. I realised that my inner conversations with him weren’t based on fear. They were full of anger, frustration, fire.

That was my intuition again. And this time, I listened fully. I set a boundary but it didn’t feel pretty. I cried, it was hard. But minutes later, after the hard conversation, I was laughing. I felt light, free, and like I had chosen myself. It was the second time I had ever felt like that in my adult life, after quitting my job years earlier.

What started as a whisper became the most trustworthy voice I’ve ever known that literally gave me my life back.